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I LOVE ME

You have kind words for someone else, but often judge yourself harshly. This self-guided online programme helps you explore how you treat yourself and practise self-respect, trust and attention.

I LOVE ME is coming fully to AYA. Enrolment is not open yet. Leave your details if you would like to know when you can start.

A different relationship with yourself.

01I am allowed to take up space.

Notice your needs and the place you occupy in your own life.

02I can forgive myself.

Look back with more compassion at choices and experiences you still carry.

03I am allowed to be myself.

Explore how you see yourself, including on days of doubt.

04I treat myself with love.

Practise the words, boundaries and attention you give yourself.

05I learn to trust myself.

Listen to what matters to you and choose a conscious next step.

06I choose myself, too.

Turn an affirmation into small decisions you can repeat.

How much of your love is allowed to stay with you?

You may know exactly how to reassure someone else while judging yourself for everything unfinished. Rest becomes something to earn. A mistake becomes proof of not being enough. Your needs wait until everyone else is helped.

I LOVE ME invites you to examine that relationship. You do not need to become another person before you deserve care. Self-love takes form in your words, the boundary you express and the attention you allow yourself.

“You are not here to become someone else.” — AYA

What do you receive?

  • A self-guided AYA programme with lessons, reflections, exercises and affirmations.
  • Existing lessons, reflection questions, assignments and affirmations about self-love, self-compassion, self-respect and trust.
  • A format for reading, writing and practising at times that fit your life.

For example, write down a self-critical thought, explore what is behind it and formulate a more conscious response. Or choose one need to make room for this week. Your experience depends on your situation and application. Personal sessions and live support are not included.

Carmen Julia Hernandez

From conversations, lessons and life.

I LOVE ME grew out of my coaching practice. Questions about how you see yourself, what you need and how much space you allow yourself become material you can work with independently. The programme remains in the existing learning environment; AYA carries its personal foundation forward.

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Practical information

The programme price remains €33. Enrolment at AYA is not open yet.

I LOVE ME is different from WVM, which has its own content and private support.

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